Tuesday, July 15, 2014

38 Weeks Bumpdate!

No matter how much you read or how much advice you are given, there is nothing that really prepares you for the "wait for baby". I feel myself going a little insane every time I feel a contraction or a weird feeling. I keep thinking, this HAS to be it! So far, there aren't any indications that Charlotte is on her way! I'm really hoping my water breaks so that I KNOW it is time. After my time in the hospital, I only want to have to go back one time to have Charlotte! Not multiple!

I finally recovered from my stomach virus, then I caught a cold and had allergy symptoms for a few days. So, I am really happy to be on the mend! 

This past weekend, we tried to enjoy the last moments of our time together! Kyle played golf on Saturday and then we went to dinner and a movie on Saturday night!

We went to see Tammy on Saturday night! It may be our last movie night for a while! :)


How far along? 38 Weeks
Total weight gain/loss: Up 14 lbs! 
Maternity clothes: As little clothing as possible!
Stretch marks? Nope!
Sleep? Haven't had trouble sleeping, but I am up 6-8 times per night to pee. Sometimes I feel like it is every hour!
Miss Anything? Bending over comfortably and wine!
Movement: Lots of movement and sometimes it hurts! Her little feet are constantly kicking over on the right side. We like to push on her feet and she pushes back. She also totally responds to my voice when we talk to her, she normally kicks or makes some type of movement!
Food cravings? Still craving sweets every now and then, but for the most part the cravings and ravenous feeling have kind of subsided for now...
Anything making you sick or queasy? Thinking about labor
Gender: Girl! :) Miss Charlotte! :) 
Symptoms: Contractions and low back pain. Thankfully the heartburn has subsided! I feel for anyone that has it! It kept me up ALL night one night!
Labor signs? Between 1-2 cm and almost fully effaced according to last Monday's appt.
Belly button in or out? Still in, but tight! My belly itches!
Wedding rings on or off? On and still fitting good, suprisingly!
Happy or moody most of the time?  Happy
Worst moment this week:  Sitting and waiting....
Best moment this week: Having a date night with Kyle at our favorite restaurant and going to see a movie! It may be our last date night for a while!! 
Looking forward to: Doctor's appt Tuesday, prenatal massage Thursday, Kyle's parents arrive next Friday and we move August 1st! 
Baby info: She's still a watermelon and weighing in at about 6.5 lbs! ( She was 6 lbs 10 oz. according to the ultrasound last week) I can't wait to see what she actually weighs and to see that sweet face! :) 

Monday, July 7, 2014

37 Week Bumpdate and Moving Update!

Wow, this week has been an eventful one! Kyle returned from being underway for the weekend and we had a pretty busy week between doctor's appointments, a newborn care class, car seat checks at the hospital, etc. On Thursday night, we decided to venture to the Pearl side to get dinner at the BBQ place, Dixie Grill, to start off our 4th of July weekend! We arrived and the power was out, so they weren't serving dinner. Of course we were soo disappointed because we both were craving BBQ! So, we ventured up the road to the mall and settled on Moe's. It is not nearly as good as I remember from college, but it is ok and satisfied us for the most part. We also got some frozen yogurt went to Babies R Us and headed home. We both felt fine and had a good night.

Fast forward to Friday morning... Happy 4th of July... yea right! The plan was for me to ride with Kyle into work so he could take the duty cellphone and then go to the gym, get lunch and shop on that side of the island. I woke up feeling icky, just not right. My stomach started gurgling and I will spare you all the gory details, but I knew this wasn't going to be good. Before Kyle had left, I hadn't started vomiting yet. Well, that became full fledged and I was in the bathtub then back in the bed, desperately trying to feel better. I noticed that my stomach was tightening really bad, but I thought it was just from the vomiting, I didn't realize for a bit that these were contractions. I did my best to text Kyle and also called the hospital birthing center (in the middle of throwing up) trying to figure out what to do. Kyle rushed home and picked me up to take me to the hospital. Really, the ride to the hospital is a blur. I was delirious and super dehydrated.

We arrived at the hospital and I really couldn't speak. I was pacing and just in so much pain and searching for the nearest toilet or trashcan possible. We got checked in and thankfully my doctor was there delivering a baby. The nurse came in and got me started on IV fluids, while I continued to vomit! I got hooked up to the monitors and was having monster contractions every 2-3 minutes. For those of you that have had babies, the peaks were at the top of the graph. My doctor was like, well this could be labor or could be caused by the dehydration and what your body has been through. She checked my cervix and said she would re-check in 2 hours to see if I was making any progress.

I received some nausea medication and fluids and slowly the contractions got further and further apart. It was impossible for me to rest, but I laid on my side and just tried to relax. When they re-checked me, I hadn't changed, still 1cm. I tried to drink some water and thankfully I was able to keep that down! I was so thirsty! When I knew Charlotte wasn't coming on 4th of July, I just wanted to go home. I was exhausted and so uncomfortable in the hospital. I was freezing and not comfortable in the bed at all.
I wouldn't normally share horrible photos of me, but this somewhat depicts how horrible I was feeling!
At this point the contractions had subsided! Praise the lord! 

We headed home and Kyle stocked up on some Gatorade, saltine crackers and chicken soup. My body was super weak and ached all over. It was truly a traumatic experience that I wouldn't want to ever go through again, pregnant or not. I finally made it out of the house today to go to church and check out our new house, but even that has worn me out! I'm glad Charlotte decided to stay put, because I don't think I would have had the energy to get through labor!

On Saturday, we got a call from the housing office and we finally got a house on Ford Island. We originally decided to move because our landlord was trying to sell the house we live in. Our lease is only through January of next year, so we knew that we would have to move at some point since our orders are here until July. So, we felt like the sooner the better so we could get settled and enjoy this time as a new family. Of course, the timing is not nearly ideal, especially because we don't know when this little girl will arrive, but we are trying our best to not stress and realize that it will all work out! The house may not be decorated for months, but at least we will be comfortable with the A/C, Kyle will be closer to work, we will have a garage ( my car is boiling every time I get in it and I was super nervous about putting Charlotte in it), on top of a million other good things. We still haven't solidified a moving date, but it will be sometime between July 30 and August 15. Kyle's parents are here from July 25-August 5 and my mom arrives August 15-31. So thankfully we will have some help during this time! I'm hoping to take some photos this week of Charlotte's perfectly set up nursery so that we can somewhat document it before we take it down and move it to the new house!
Our new house! 

We are currently at the blue dot, moving to the red dot and Kyle works at the purple dot. It is alot closer, but the traffic on the Honolulu side is much worse than the Kailua side.
On Ford Island overlooking the Arizona memorial and the Reagan Aircraft Carrier in town for RIMPAC
I have no bump pic this week! :( Hopefully once I'm feeling better I can document! This may be the last one!

How far along? 37 Weeks
Total weight gain/loss: I lost 5 lbs upon checking into the hospital. Will update again next week once my body bounces back!
Maternity clothes: Anything that fits!
Stretch marks? Nope!
Sleep? One night I was up every hour, the next only 2 times in one night. It's constantly changing
Miss Anything? Nothing in particular!
Movement: Her movement has not been as active over the weekend, but I think she was resting from all of the activity I put her through or she is running out of room! 
Food cravings? Ugh, food is not my friend right now
Anything making you sick or queasy? Thinking about labor
Gender: Girl! :) Miss Charlotte! :) 
Symptoms: Some contractions, low back pain, heartburn like crazy even after having nothing to eat! It just starts up! 
Labor signs? Still 1 cm dilated!
Belly button in or out? Still in!
Wedding rings on or off? On and still fitting good, suprisingly!
Happy or moody most of the time?  Happy
Worst moment this week:  I would change this to say worse moment of my entire pregnancy was the events of 4th of July! So horrible!
Best moment this week: Getting a house on Ford Island!
Looking forward to: Getting closer and closer to her due date! The waiting game has begun!
Baby info: She's a watermelon and weighing in at about 6 lbs! 


Wednesday, July 2, 2014

36 Weeks Bumpdate

Short post this week and I'm late in posting as I am now almost 37 weeks and full term!! Wow, I never thought we would get here! Enjoy the bumpdate and have a safe and fun 4th of July! :) 

How far along? 36 Weeks
Total weight gain/loss: Up 2 lbs for a total of 13 lbs
Maternity clothes: I'm wearing whatever is comfortable at this point!
Stretch marks? Nope!
Sleep? Was worse in the beginning of the week (up 8x to pee) but has gotten better. I just can't nap! I tell myself everyday I'm going to take one and I can't! 
Miss Anything? The usual, being able to bend over and pick things up and feeling cool! She is such a heater!
Movement: Moving constantly! Thankfully it doesn't keep me awake or wake me up. She definitely responds to me pushing on her and also singing. I'm practicing my nursery rhymes! :) 
Food cravings? So hungry...always! I usually start my day pretty healthy and then I end up craving Popsicles and sugar later in the day!
Anything making you sick or queasy? Needles, IVs and all things medical related!
Gender: Girl! :) Miss Charlotte! :) 
Symptoms: The usual, back pain, heartburn and just started swelling up too! 
Labor signs? I'm 1 cm dilated!
Belly button in or out? Still in!
Wedding rings on or off? On and still fitting good, suprisingly!
Happy or moody most of the time?  Happy
Worst moment this week: Kyle was gone this past weekend, but we managed just fine! I did some shopping at the outlets and got super tired! I don't know what I was thinking going there on a weekend! I think that triggered my "scare" at my doctors appt on Monday. My blood pressure was elevated, I was up 3 lbs from the following Thursday and very swollen, but my urine and reflexes were fine. Thankfully everything is back to normal and the swelling has gone down! It was just a little nerve-wracking.
Best moment this week: Having Kyle home and not leaving again until after she is born! So comforting! And knowing I'm starting to dilate. I realize I could still go to 42 weeks, but progress, is progress! As Kyle said, I'm 10% of the way there!! 
Looking forward to: Getting our car seats installed by the hospital ( I feel like this makes it so real) and the long 4th of July weekend!
Baby info: She is still a large cantaloupe and is about 20 inches and 5.5 lbs!


Monday, June 23, 2014

35 Weeks Bumpdate!

Another week closer to Miss Charlotte gracing us with her arrival! This week I started my weekly doctor's visits and we are finishing out our classes at the hospital! We had a great tour last Thursday and the nurses and staff are all super friendly! The unit is rather small, only 8 rooms, but the rooms are spacious and are very nice! They also have you stay in the same room for labor, delivery and recovery which I think is really nice! 

Kyle's command had another "Hail and Farewell" for those joining and leaving the command. It was Hawaiian themed, hence our attire! This top was the only thing I could find that was remotely "Hawaiian". The lunch was catered by Dixie Grill, a BBQ restaurant, and it was so yummy that we actually went there for lunch the next day! 

Hail and Farewell for Desron 31
Yummy Southern Lunch at Dixie Grill!
Kyle's command took a photo last week, so I thought I would share! You can see his command is alot smaller than the previous one of 250! This is Destroyer Squadron 31 in front of the Arizona Memorial.
Staff Photo of Desron 31 ( Kyle is on the left)

Getting bigger each week!

How far along? 35 Weeks
Total weight gain/loss: Up 1.5 for a total of 11 lbs
Maternity clothes: Yep and workout clothes!
Stretch marks? Not so far!
Sleep? Ahh, it gets worse each night. I would be lost without my body pillow though!

Miss Anything? Central AC and the conveniences of mainland life!
Movement: Oh yes, I need to get a video of her going crazy. The worst is when she has her feet up in my ribs! Wow, I can't breathe! It's miserable!
Food cravings? My sugar cravings are back! I love Jolly Ranchers! Grape and Watermelon
Anything making you sick or queasy? Thinking about getting an epidural... Yikes!
Gender: Girl! :) Miss Charlotte! :) 
Symptoms: Back pain (but getting some relief from a chiropractor), constant heartburn and contractions!
Labor signs? Not yet!
Belly button in or out? At this point, I am not sure if it will pop out or not!
Wedding rings on or off? On
Happy or moody most of the time?  Happy
Worst moment this week: The waiting game! When will she arrive?
Best moment this week: Getting the electric bill for our AC! We were so scared it would be $1000 because of the energy charges here, so we cautiously ran the AC. But now, we don't have to worry about running them and they've been going almost non-stop and I'm still hot!
Looking forward to:  Ultrasound and weekly appointment on Thursday, final week of our hospital classes and prenatal massage on Saturday!
Baby info: She is a large cantaloupe and is about 20 inches and 5.5 lbs! 

Monday, June 16, 2014

34 Weeks and Birthday Weekend

34 Weeks! I cannot believe I've been pregnant for this long! It has seemed like an eternity at times and seemed to fly at other times! Probably because we have been all over the place ( Florida, Virginia, Florida and Hawaii)! It has been quite the adventure!

This week we celebrated my 26th birthday and like most people say, birthdays get less and less "fun" as you get older! As I creep closer to 30, I try to remember that I'm getting older and wiser, right? Needless to say, I felt very loved on my birthday! From cards, texts, messages and a "happy dirthday" video from my nephew, it was a great day! (He sings to Mater first in the video)

On Saturday, Kyle made breakfast and we opened gifts and then went out on the boat to the sandbar on Kaneohe Bay.  We went with our friends Adam and Kelanie! Kelanie is my Gemini twin and her birthday is the day after mine! Like anything here in Hawaii, as we were driving to the boat the clouds got thick and it started to rain. The same thing happened when my family was here and we had horrible weather for the 4 hours we were on the boat! :( I tried to be optimistic and slowly the weather got better and the sun came back out. We were having a great time, then I started to feel seasick. I went onto the sandbar to try to get on stable land and started to feel better. I got back on the boat and was sick again to the point of no return and tossed my cookies. It was no fun, but I have to be grateful as it was only the 2nd time I've thrown up this pregnancy!
On the boat with Macey Jane and Maverick!
After the boat, Kyle surprised me with dinner at one of my favorite restaurants, Kalapawai! Our friends Amanda and Brett came too! Amanda is also pregnant, so there is never a dull moment with us girls! We had a great dinner! On the menu was Watermelon and Avocado Salad, Sweet Potato and Goat Cheese Ravioli (yes it was pasteurized) with Brown Butter Sauce and Salted Caramel Gelato for dessert! When we arrived, the hostess informed us that someone had called in a gift certificate for us! Such a sweet surprise from my sister and brother in law!

With my beautiful flowers, sweet cards and Princess Macey Jane! :)
Dinner at Kalapawai



How far along? 34Weeks
Total weight gain/loss: Down .5 lbs for a total of 9.5 lbs.
Maternity clothes: I'm running out of options... but I don't really want to buy anymore maternity clothes!
Stretch marks? Not so far!
Sleep? Still getting up early, but sleeping better some nights. I would be lost without my body pillow!


Miss Anything? The usual!
Movement: Lots of movement! She was very quiet after I got sick on the boat and I was worried, but then just when I start to worry, she kicks me and I am reassured!
Food cravings? Popsicles are my new best friend! I get the fruit ones and they really cool me off!
Anything making you sick or queasy? Ugh, going on a boat! I should have known better!
Gender: Girl! :) Miss Charlotte! :) 
Symptoms: Back pain, heartburn, BH contractions when I exercise
Labor signs? Not yet!
Belly button in or out? It's holding on, but you can pretty much see the whole inside.
Wedding rings on or off? On
Happy or moody most of the time?  Happy
Worst moment this week: Getting sick! I feel so blessed for not having nausea/morning sickness in my pregnancy!
Best moment this week: Celebrating my birthday, nesting and organizing Charlotte's room and taking our maternity photos
Looking forward to: Continuing our hospital classes, our hospital tour and 35 week appointment all on Thursday!
Baby info: She is a pineapple! How fitting for Hawaii? And she is weighing in just under 5 lbs! 

Tuesday, June 10, 2014

33 Weeks Bumpdate!

This week we started our classes at the hospital! On Wednesday night we took a breastfeeding class and on Thursday we started our month long classes called "The Castle Experience". Castle is our hospital and they offer the classes to help you know what to expect during birth and your stay at the hospital. Just after one class, I already feel more confident in everything! I also know that if I want Popsicles during labor, I have to bring them because they don't have them! Crazy, huh? 

On Saturday, we went up to Haleiwa on the North Shore. I had only been once ( on the bus tour I did) and it was Kyle's first trip! It's about an hour drive from Kailua, but so worth it! We had dinner at Opal Thai (supposedly the best Thai on the island) and also stopped at an ice cream shop before watching the sunset on the beach. Kyle took some great silhouette photos and we talked about Charlotte. When will she arrive? Who will she look like? It's getting so close and so real! 



How far along? 33Weeks
Total weight gain/loss: .5 lbs this week for a total of 10 lbs
Maternity clothes: Yep! But right now, the less clothing the better! It's hot!
Stretch marks? Not so far!
Sleep? Up a lot throughout the night. Not comfortable, hot, dreams, nightmares... I have it all. 

Miss Anything? This week... Chipotle and of course family and "home"
Movement: She has the hiccups as I write this! 
Food cravings? Nothing in particular, just pretty hungry all the time!
Anything making you sick or queasy? Hmm not really!
Gender: Girl! :) Miss Charlotte! :) 
Symptoms: Back pain and heartburn
Labor signs? Not yet!
Belly button in or out? Still in. But getting very close to making the pop out!
Wedding rings on or off? On
Happy or moody most of the time?  Happy
Worst moment this week: Hmm nothing bad this week.
Best moment this week: Getting Charlotte's monogram for over her crib and getting prepared with our classes!
Looking forward to: My 26th birthday is this weekend!
Baby info: She is a honeydew! 


Tuesday, June 3, 2014

32 Weeks Bumpdate

This week went by quickly with Monday being a holiday! My bible study group at church surprised with a baby shower on Wednesday! We had fun playing a few games and they gave me lots of good advice too! I received some adorable outfits, lots of books and diapers too! It was a great time! 




How far along? 32 Weeks
Total weight gain/loss: 1.5 lbs this week for a total of 9.5lbs!
Maternity clothes: As I write this, I am sitting in my bathing suit! Haha, anything goes here in Hawaii and the less clothes, the less hot I am! :)
Stretch marks? I can't see below my belly button anymore, so I asked Kyle and he can't see any! Hope it stays that way!
Sleep? Ehh, not a great week for sleep. Up at 5:30 this morning and up yesterday morning with the worst charlie horse of my life! No fun!

Miss Anything? Regular food (is this a common theme of my pregnancy or what?) 
Movement: Lots and sometimes it is starting to hurt! Her foot gets lodged in my rib and it is so painful!
Food cravings? Pretzels and cheese and anything cold!
Anything making you sick or queasy? Hmm not really!
Gender: Girl! :) Miss Charlotte! :) 
Symptoms: No Braxton Hicks in a while. I guess that means I am doing a good job resting! (or being lazy!)
Labor signs? Not yet!
Belly button in or out? Still in. But really looks like an outie in all of my shirts!
Wedding rings on or off? On
Happy or moody most of the time?  Happy
Worst moment this week: Getting an email from our landlord that she plans to sell our house! :( We think we are in the clear until January (when our lease ends), but if it sells, we will probably have to move in January with less than 6 months left on the island and a 6 month old! No fun!
Best moment this week: Having a relaxing weekend with no plans and working on Charlotte's room! We are almost completely setup!
Looking forward to: Our hospital classes start on Thursday and I have a doctor's appointment as well.
Baby info: She is a still a head of lettuce! :)